Welcome to the New England Dungeon Society

 

The New England Dungeon Society is a pansexual educational, support and social group.

We conduct regular BDSM seminars, workshops and demonstrations, social events for members and their escorted guests, as well as many and varied special events.

The New England Dungeon Society has been providing a comfortable environment for people to explore bondage, dominance & submission, and their kinkier side since 1993. We are a volunteer organization that depends upon its membership. Please check out the Get Involved page to see how you can help us grow and thrive.

Keep up to date with NEDS on Twitter or on Fetlife at New England Dungeon Society

This website contains no pornography, nudity, nor graphic descriptions of sex, but it does contain material pertaining to sex and alternative sexual lifestyles.

If you are under 18 years of age, or if you feel you would be offended by these contents, please do not view any further and EXIT THIS SITE!

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NEDS Presents: Massage for Lovers and Really Close Friends – Friday, October 13, 2017

There’s a world of hurt AND healing in your hands, fingers and elbows…chances are you already lean on, poke & drum on your partner(s), so why not learn to finesse your massage skills?

sepiessa will discuss and demonstrate various massage techniques and how they affect the physical body as well as stimulate and soothe the nervous system. Stimulation is good and it’s not just the receiver who benefits! Learning to deliver a wide range of sensation from soft and sensuous to hurts-so-good is the focus of this class. Expect to hear erotic moans & groans, giggling and sighs! Learn the untold secrets of a kinky Licensed Massage Therapist!

 

sepiessa will supply hypo-allergenic oil (fractionated coconut oil)

 

Comfortable casual clothing is recommended and may come in contact with washable massage oil, but some fabrics may be stainable. Dress accordingly.

Nudity is likely but not required.

Consent and courtesy will be required.

By attending you consent to be in a room with others in various stages of undress, including full nudity.

Happy Endings are NOT a feature of this class. Some techniques will be shown which are sensual in nature but we will not be demonstrating or practicing to completion.

This is a hands-on class

 

~Be Prepared~

You are welcome to bring your massage table if you’ve got one (be sure it is rated to hold 2 people)

We may have extra massage tables available. If you do not have a table you can bring a yoga mat.

You will each need to bring a towel or two

Please be freshly showered prior to arriving.

Please no cologne or perfume, no smoking before or during

 

sepiessa is a skilled bodyworker with over 10 years of training and experience in Swedish and Deep Tissue massage as well as Thai Massage. She leads Naked Yoga at various local cons and loves to share her knowledge with her kinky peers. She has a flourishing private massage and yoga practice in Massachusetts.

NEDS Spooktacular Halloween Party – Friday October 20, 2017

This will be a costume party with prizes for different categories. So, dress to impress in your strangest, funniest, or kinkiest outfit. Or just come as you are. You never know what may win a prize. There are lockers for changing, bring your own lock. NEDS is not responsible for missing or stolen property, please do not leave valuables in your car. As always this is an alcohol-free event, but the bar will be open to serve soft drinks. Please remember to tip the bartender.
Entry fees paid for NEDS events are non-refundable and non- transferable.

Tickets are now on sale for members and will be on sale September 11 for non-members. Last day to register is October 16th nothing past that date as the club needs a head count.

https://ssl.ne-ds.org/events/1355728532

NEDS and NEHG Present: “We Have Ways of Making You Talk” By Wiseguy

There is nothing quite like a well-run interrogation scene. As a top, interrogations will challenge your creativity and ingenuity; as a bottom, they give you a chance to safely place yourself into an extreme situation. In this class we will go over the essential elements of an interrogation scene, including how to negotiate it and logistical considerations. Then Wiseguy delves into tactics for interrogators and how hypnosis can be used to turn up the intensity and effectiveness of information-extracting techniques. The class concludes with a demonstration scene plotted with the assistance and suggestions of the audience.

The unofficial dean of erotic hypnosis education, Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy) brings his brand of humor and fun into classes that teach anyone how to use erotic hypnosis in a way that is safe, ethical, responsible, and hot. He is also author of the books Mind Play: A Guide to Erotic Hypnosis and The Mind Play Study Guide, the first hypnosis books written expressly for the kink community. In mundane life Wiseguy is a professional hypnotist, a teacher of professional hypnotists, and an avid woodworker.

For this presentation NEDS If offering member entrance fee to Card Presenting NELA Associates.

NEDS Presents: Hot Summer Nights Play Party: July 21, 2017

It’s time to don your bikini (or less) and show off that bod. Join NEDS for their Hot Summer Nights Play Party. Registration is now open for members until July 3, and open to all on the 4th of July! You can register HERE

The evening will get cracking with LadyNim presenting a whip demo.

Then the tropical breeze will take you through the club for some kinky fun.

If you have never been to a NEDS event before, please check out our FetLife group especially our party rules.

We are looking for a few beach babes and dudes to help out with DM duties. Contact events@ne-ds.org if you are interested in helping us.

This will be an alcohol- and drug-free event, in keeping with our party rules.

Once you register, you will get a basic confirmation email. The week of the party, we will e-mail you specifics on location etc.

A little about LadyNim.
My name, my passion for whips and I’ve been in lifestyle about 20 years. In those years, I have been mentored and have mentored others.
I love education of all skills and concepts. “Knowledge is power”.
I have a collared slave Kevin who is my happiness.

Don’t miss out on this hotter than hot play evening!

 

NEDS Presents: Service in M/s Relationships 14 July 2017

What is a service based relationship? Explore the depths of a pure service based relationship, types of service and how each side of a relationship sees and desires to give and receive service. Stephan and sweetwisterias will explore and explain the depths of a 24/7 M/s based relationship with the core ideals being on service and submission. They will discuss some of the common struggles and rewards with the deep connections that are formed in these relationships.

Stephan has been in the scene for almost 20 years and has maintained M/s relationships since entering. He finds the most contentment in day to day life when someone is in service to him. He likes the commitment it takes to be in relationships of this intensity and seeks to share his knowledge and experience with anyone who wants to explore the deeper side of M/s.

sweetwisterias has been in the scene for eight years. She entered knowing that slavery spoke to her core and has sought out structured M/s relationships for this reason. She finds significant value in being of service and in serving others, and is exploring how teaching on lifestyle subjects may be another way of meeting this personal need.

Just a reminder: Before class starts we will be having the special election for the open board position.

NEDS Presents The Business of Kink – 9 June 2017

Whenever there is and exchange of goods, or services for money, service, or goods, that creates a business transaction. Even at the lowest level of selling homemade whips or paddles from you house or the larger established store you’re a business.

The vast majority companies are small businesses, often started by “Mom & Pop” or individuals. During the last US census in 2010 there were 27.9 million small businesses of those registered and there are many who operate undeclared “under the radar” many of which fail in the first 1-5 years.

The Kink community and those who sell goods and services have grown exponentially over the last 10-15 years, moving more from a sub culture to more mainstreams. This has created both great opportunities and pitfalls for those within the community.

The class will provide some tools and techniques for those doing business within the kink community.
Included are topics on:

• The Legal Game: Protecting your ASSets – liability protection and more
• The Money Game: It’s not what you make it’s what you keep – Key financial thoughts
• The Marketing Game: Do’s & Don’ts in the digital age
• The Capital Game: Getting money for your business

Manatyrservice has been in scene on and off, both personally and professionally for over 30 years. He’s worked with Pro-Domme, kink product developers and distributors, and adult content Internet providers.

As a general business managers Ken has over 30 years experience in business management and implementation of best practices, operations, and management planning.in almost every department in every industry. Ken has a unique perspective in that he has created 3 companies from start-up to great financial success and that these companies provided business management consulting and publishing to Fortune 500 executives.

NEDS Annual Picnic 4 June 2017

It’s that time of year again!! Break out your sunglasses, bathing suits and chairs for the NEDS annual picnic!! Always a great time and a great way to catch up with fellow members and friends.

We will be providing hamburgers, hotdogs, light snacks and non-alcoholic beverages. Please feel free to bring a side dish to share.

You will be able to find us in the Split Rock section of the park. This area will be designated for us but we cannot control people from passing through.

The park hours are 8 am to 8 pm. We suggest you arrive early because the park will not allow entry once it reaches it’s maximum capacity.

Hopkinton State Park charges an entrance fee of $8.00 for Massachusetts plates and $10.00 for out of state plates.

18+ only.  Please no children.  This event is free for active NEDS members and $20 for non-members.

NEDS Presents: BDSM and the Law – 12 May 2017

 

An open question forum with a Massachusetts Attorney on the intersects of BDSM and the law (this is purposely open ended as the intersects can range from Criminal to divorce and everything in between). Typical Issues of discussion are: What is consent under the law?, how does my being kinky affect me in court? What do I tell me Doctor about my bruises?; What should I tell the police if they want to talk to me about bruises, kink, or anything?; whatever you bring

Attorney Adam Phipps has practiced in Massachusetts since 2011. Prior to becoming an Attorney Adam worked as a Registered Nurse for more than twenty years (emergency department, ICU, and management). He handles a general civil practice: (Civil rights, Discrimination, mental health litigation, police misconduct, Family law (Divorce, custody, restraining orders), Landlord-Tenant, medical-legal consulting as an expert Registered Nurse. He identifies as non-binary and is comfortable with any pronouns. He considers himself a progressive intellectualist with a love of politics, history and old movies.

NEDS Presents: All About Head – April 14, 2017

Getting Your Kicks From The Neck Up

Friday,  April 14, 2017 · 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM

 

In the lifestyle so much of our play has to do with impacting the body from the thighs to the breast, sometimes the feet of course…but what about the neck and the head. This class will focus on the sensations from pleasant to painful and a range of others in between while focusing on just the neck & head as the canvas. Lets see how much fun can be derived by “playing with the head”, from sensual touch to safe impact. The class will incorporate the typical toys from a play bag as well as items you may not ever think to place there.

About the presenter:
MzBugz has been a very active member of the BDSM community for nearly 3 years. She has gained a wealth of knowledge through personal life experiences, lifestyle education and practice…lots of practice. A female identified pansexual polyamorous Top heavy hedonistic switch. MzBugz carries with her a reputation for having an incredible shoe collection that she enjoys show off in her kink travels spanning most of New England area playing, learning and teaching