Welcome to the New England Dungeon Society


The New England Dungeon Society is a pansexual educational, support and social group.

We conduct regular BDSM seminars, workshops and demonstrations, social events for members and their escorted guests, as well as many and varied special events.

The New England Dungeon Society has been providing a comfortable environment for people to explore bondage, dominance & submission, and their kinkier side since 1993. We are a volunteer organization that depends upon its membership. Please check out the Get Involved page to see how you can help us grow and thrive.

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This website contains no pornography, nudity, nor graphic descriptions of sex, but it does contain material pertaining to sex and alternative sexual lifestyles.

If you are under 18 years of age, or if you feel you would be offended by these contents, please do not view any further and EXIT THIS SITE!


NEDS is proud to present Skyla – Non-Monogamy 101 Sept 13

Non-Monogamy 101 – NEDS September 2019 Our culture makes space for one relationship structure – monogamy. As kinksters, we know that there are many different approaches to relationships. This workshop will cover different types of non-monogamy, and specifically focus on polyamory. Topics covered will include: talking to your partner(s) about your needs & desires, health and safety protocols, logistics, being out vs. not being out to family, friends, and co-workers.
Although this workshop is directed at foundational level topics, people of all experiences are welcomed and encouraged to attend – including monogamous folks. Bio: Skyla is your friendly neighborhood mermaid. She has been swimming around these waters since 2012 where she got her start through attending a NEDS class! Skyla went on to become a NEDS board member working as secretary and event coordinator. Skyla continued her passion for community volunteering through working behind the scenes at several large scale kink conventions including: Fusion, Summer Camp, Winter Fire, and Bound in Boston. In 2018, Skyla teamed up Ozma_of_Oz to create new convention; Tethered Together. Tethered Together is a hotel takeover rope-centric convention that is accented with dance, circus, relationship, and kink workshops. The event runs in March each year in Rhode Island. Skyla can be found teaching on a variety topics including polyamory, cosplay, urethral sounding, and rope bondage. Skyla is happily married to a fellow kinkster in a polyamorous marriage that takes a “kitchen table” style approach to relationships. She loves iced coffee, dry humor, and dancing with her leviwand. Website: tetheredtogether.net

NEDS is proud to present Wiseguy – Recreational hypnosis is memory play, and why not? – August 9th

Class description:

One of the most often asked-about things in recreational hypnosis is memory play, and why not? It’s hot, watching your partner do things without remembering doing them. Or suddenly being unable to remember your own name. In this advanced workshop, though, we’ll take memory play to some new extremes and show you some advanced techniques for when you’ve done taking away the number 4 and are ready to move up.


The unofficial dean of erotic hypnosis education, Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy) brings his brand of humor and fun into classes that teach anyone how to use erotic hypnosis in a way that is safe, ethical, responsible, and hot. He is also the author of the books Mind Play: A Guide to Erotic Hypnosis and The Mind Play Study Guide, the first hypnosis books written expressly for the kink community. In mundane life Wiseguy is a professional hypnotist, a teacher of professional hypnotists, and an avid woodworker.

NEDS is proud to present Stephan and sweetwisteria – Practical Magic, Practical Communication – July 12, 2019

Class description: Practical Magic, Practical Communication

“We constantly hear that good communication skills are important. Improving them can strengthen relationships, increase productivity, and reduce conflict just to name a few benefits. But if communication skills are so valuable across the board, why do we invest so little in improving them? Maybe we’re just tired of hearing generic tips like “”become a better listener.”” In this class, Stephan and SweetWisteria will delve into communication techniques they’ve used to improve their relationship. Participants will leave with tangible next steps to improving their communication skills within their relationships.”


Stephan and sweetwisteria have been in an M/s dynamic for nearly 5 years exploring what power and authority exchange mean to them and how they can help teach others to explore power exchange. Together they enjoy educating on a myriad of subjects around the M/s dynamic, service, formal dining, etiquette, and many other subjects. They also live in a poly household with six adults, two cats and a dog, adding to the complexity of their M/s and service to both a person and a house.

Reminder–NEDS Picnic – Sunday, June 02, 2019 ·10:00 AM – 5:00 PM


Free for members / $5 non members

Please come join us celebrate our annual picnic. Secluded, peaceful and relaxing that is the spot we have at Hopkington State Park. Our group will be gathered in the Split Rock Pavilion area. Whether you want to mingle and chat, take a few minutes to simply enjoy nature or take a short walk down to the beach there is something for everyone. The picnic includes all the usual picnic goodies.  Feel free to bring something to share if you like. You don’t have to be a NEDS member, so come on over enjoy the food, make some new friends and hopefully take in the sunshine.

Please note, other areas of the park fill up quickly on a nice day, so the rangers are required to close the gates early.  Our spot does not fill up we have it all to ourselves.  So come early don’t be locked out.

Hope to see you there!



From the north: Take Route I-495 South towards Marlboro/Taunton, Take exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton. Travel down Main Street until the third traffic light located at the heart of downtown Hopkinton, Turn left traveling North on Route 85, Hopkinton State Park entrance is about 2 miles down on the right.
From the south: Take Route I-495 North to exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton and follow the directions listed above.
From the east: Route 90 (Mass Pike West) to RouteI-495 South. Take exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton and follow the directions listed above.

NEDS Picnic – Sunday, June 02, 2019 ·10:00 AM – 5:00 PM

Free for members / $5 non members


From the north: Take Route I-495 South towards Marlboro/Taunton, Take exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton. Travel down Main Street until the third traffic light located at the heart of downtown Hopkinton, Turn left traveling North on Route 85, Hopkinton State Park entrance is about 2 miles down on the right.

From the south: Take Route I-495 North to exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton and follow the directions listed above.

From the east: Route 90 (Mass Pike West) to RouteI-495 South. Take exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton and follow the directions listed above.

NEDS is proud to present ThePhenix – Baby one more time…pain processing – June 14, 2019

Class description: Baby one more time…

Since entering the lifestyle and learning I was a masochist I started researching how to process pain, so I can feel more pain. I came to learn there are three types of play that I need to be able to process: the planned scenes, the sudden attacks, and the long-held pains. Each one had different characteristics and ways to process. I found most research addressed the planned scene. As a researcher I kept digging and adapted what I found and practiced developing tips and techniques I can use to process pain in all three types of play. This course is a practical lesson combining everything I have found and practiced over the years on the topic of pain processing.

NEDS is proud to present – sepiessa and foot massage – soothing to sadistic – May 10, 2019

It is for people enthusiastic about learning foot massage. It can go from soothing to sadistic in about two seconds! This will be hands on…skill sharing.

Here it is:
Up level your foot massage skills and add delicious touches to your footie toolbox! You’ll be in demand at your next pedular event after taking this class.

Learn reflexology points, foot massage techniques and how best to melt your foot massage receiver sepiessa has culled the best techniques from her thirteen years in the massage business for the most effective foot massage & wishes to share them with you.

This class will cover:

Functional anatomy
Ritual washing of the feet
Dry massage techniques
Oiled massage techniques
Self Massage Techniques

Please bring wipes (for skin, not cleaning), a towel & oil or lotion

‘Reflexology is an ancient natural therapy based on the principle that certain parts of the body, such as the feet, hands and ears, reflect the whole body like a map in miniature. These parts of the body are comprised of so-called “reflex points”, which relate to all organs, glands and body parts. The reflex points respond to pressure and touch, having a relaxing and balancing effect on the whole organism, and promoting health by stimulating the body’s own natural healing process.’

From: https://www.thefootprintconnection.com/

NEDS Service/Silent Auction 4 May 2019

It’s that time of the year!! Time for the NEDS Auction!!!!

Have you ever had a fantasy of being won by the highest bidder? Are you a submissive who has wanted to belong to someone for an evening after being auctioned off the block? Are you a Top that has an amazing skill that you love to exhibit on a bottom? Want to practice this in an open and safe environment with like minded individuals? Now is your chance! NEDS is hosting a Service and Silent Auction as a fundraiser to raise money for the charities chosen AND gives you a chance to get your kink on while giving back to the community.
That’s a win win for everyone!

If you’re interested in going up for auction it doesn’t matter how you identify, it’s open to anyone who wishes to go up! If bidding for someone’s time for a scene doesn’t interest you, how about bidding on a handmade crafted kinky item,sexy toy or a piece of art? The community has generously donated items in the past and we will be posting the businesses who have donated very soon!

Register HERE

If you want to put yourself up for bid sign up here

100% of the proceeds will be\ split evenly between 3 charities

NEDS is proud to present Thista – The Rituals of Kink – 12 April 2019

Rituals of Kink

What is ritual, and what is its purpose? How can we use ritual to enhance our experience of kink? From fetish outfits, to setup and cleanup routines, to complex D/s protocol, kink is full of ritual language. Let’s look at rituals both sacred and secular, and explore how actions can speak louder than words.


Thista Minai is an author, priestess, ordeal facilitator, and gleeful sadist. Benefiting from a professional background in education, Thista teaches classes on a wide variety of topics, including sacred sexuality, the ordeal path, catharsis, impact, and needle play. With more than fifteen years of experience in designing and conducting rituals, Thista travels the country championing the value of spirituality and empowerment in kink and BDSM.

Fetlife profile https://fetlife.com/users/784208

Website: https://thistaminai.com/

NE-Ds/Smak Holiday Party

Date and Time: December 7th -9 P.M. – 1:30 A.M.

Location: Private Club in Providence, Rhode Island

Cost: $35/SMAK or NEDS members, $45 Non-members

Dress Code: Vanilla outside, Festive Fetish inside

Santa has asked his kinkiest elves from S.M.A.K and N.E.D.S. to join forces and deck the dungeon for a gala holiday party. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been naughty or nice, this is the event to jingle, mingle and beat Mary! We collectively invite everyone to join us – members, dual members and non-members – for an elfin’ great time. There will be food, fun, reindeer games and of course the ever popular Yank Me Swap. This is not mandatory but if you want to take part we ask that you bring a wrapped gift worth $25.00 for it. The holiday season is the time to gather ’round a huge Yule log with your kinky family and friends so join us for what promises to be an extravaganza that won’t be soon forgotten.Of course Santa will make a visit for all the good or bad girls and boys to sit on his lap……..smiles Memberships and renewals will be available at the door. This event will allow alcohol if you want a drink, you will be given a wrist band at the entrance . Just 2 are allowed for the evening. It is also a BYOB the club will hold your bottle behind the bar for the evening. There are lockers for changing but you must bring your own lock. The event organizers are not responsible for missing or stolen property: please do not leave valuables in your car. Entry fees paid for this event are non-refundable and non-transferable. Please click on the link below to get your ticket for this event.   https://ssl.ne-ds.org/events/1337730940