NEDS Picnic – Sunday, June 02, 2019 ·10:00 AM – 5:00 PM

Free for members / $5 non members…

From the north: Take Route I-495 South towards Marlboro/Taunton, Take exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton. Travel down Main Street until the third traffic light located at the heart of downtown Hopkinton, Turn left traveling North on Route 85, Hopkinton State Park entrance is about 2 miles down on the right.

From the south: Take Route I-495 North to exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton and follow the directions listed above.

From the east: Route 90 (Mass Pike West) to RouteI-495 South. Take exit 21A to Main Street Hopkinton and follow the directions listed above.

NEDS is proud to present ThePhenix – Baby one more time…pain processing – June 14, 2019

Class description: Baby one more time…

Since entering the lifestyle and learning I was a masochist I started researching how to process pain, so I can feel more pain. I came to learn there are three types of play that I need to be able to process: the planned scenes, the sudden attacks, and the long-held pains. Each one had different characteristics and ways to process. I found most research addressed the planned scene. As a researcher I kept digging and adapted what I found and practiced developing tips and techniques I can use to process pain in all three types of play. This course is a practical lesson combining everything I have found and practiced over the years on the topic of pain processing.

NEDS is proud to present – sepiessa and foot massage – soothing to sadistic – May 10, 2019

It is for people enthusiastic about learning foot massage. It can go from soothing to sadistic in about two seconds! This will be hands on…skill sharing.

Here it is:
Up level your foot massage skills and add delicious touches to your footie toolbox! You’ll be in demand at your next pedular event after taking this class.

Learn reflexology points, foot massage techniques and how best to melt your foot massage receiver sepiessa has culled the best techniques from her thirteen years in the massage business for the most effective foot massage & wishes to share them with you.

This class will cover:

Functional anatomy
Ritual washing of the feet
Dry massage techniques
Oiled massage techniques
Self Massage Techniques

Please bring wipes (for skin, not cleaning), a towel & oil or lotion

‘Reflexology is an ancient natural therapy based on the principle that certain parts of the body, such as the feet, hands and ears, reflect the whole body like a map in miniature. These parts of the body are comprised of so-called “reflex points”, which relate to all organs, glands and body parts. The reflex points respond to pressure and touch, having a relaxing and balancing effect on the whole organism, and promoting health by stimulating the body’s own natural healing process.’


NEDS Service/Silent Auction 4 May 2019

It’s that time of the year!! Time for the NEDS Auction!!!!

Have you ever had a fantasy of being won by the highest bidder? Are you a submissive who has wanted to belong to someone for an evening after being auctioned off the block? Are you a Top that has an amazing skill that you love to exhibit on a bottom? Want to practice this in an open and safe environment with like minded individuals? Now is your chance! NEDS is hosting a Service and Silent Auction as a fundraiser to raise money for the charities chosen AND gives you a chance to get your kink on while giving back to the community.
That’s a win win for everyone!

If you’re interested in going up for auction it doesn’t matter how you identify, it’s open to anyone who wishes to go up! If bidding for someone’s time for a scene doesn’t interest you, how about bidding on a handmade crafted kinky item,sexy toy or a piece of art? The community has generously donated items in the past and we will be posting the businesses who have donated very soon!

Register HERE

If you want to put yourself up for bid sign up here

100% of the proceeds will be\ split evenly between 3 charities

NEDS is proud to present Thista – The Rituals of Kink – 12 April 2019

Rituals of Kink

What is ritual, and what is its purpose? How can we use ritual to enhance our experience of kink? From fetish outfits, to setup and cleanup routines, to complex D/s protocol, kink is full of ritual language. Let’s look at rituals both sacred and secular, and explore how actions can speak louder than words.


Thista Minai is an author, priestess, ordeal facilitator, and gleeful sadist. Benefiting from a professional background in education, Thista teaches classes on a wide variety of topics, including sacred sexuality, the ordeal path, catharsis, impact, and needle play. With more than fifteen years of experience in designing and conducting rituals, Thista travels the country championing the value of spirituality and empowerment in kink and BDSM.

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NE-Ds/Smak Holiday Party

Date and Time: December 7th -9 P.M. – 1:30 A.M.

Location: Private Club in Providence, Rhode Island

Cost: $35/SMAK or NEDS members, $45 Non-members

Dress Code: Vanilla outside, Festive Fetish inside

Santa has asked his kinkiest elves from S.M.A.K and N.E.D.S. to join forces and deck the dungeon for a gala holiday party. It doesn’t matter if you’ve been naughty or nice, this is the event to jingle, mingle and beat Mary! We collectively invite everyone to join us – members, dual members and non-members – for an elfin’ great time. There will be food, fun, reindeer games and of course the ever popular Yank Me Swap. This is not mandatory but if you want to take part we ask that you bring a wrapped gift worth $25.00 for it. The holiday season is the time to gather ’round a huge Yule log with your kinky family and friends so join us for what promises to be an extravaganza that won’t be soon forgotten.Of course Santa will make a visit for all the good or bad girls and boys to sit on his lap……..smiles Memberships and renewals will be available at the door. This event will allow alcohol if you want a drink, you will be given a wrist band at the entrance . Just 2 are allowed for the evening. It is also a BYOB the club will hold your bottle behind the bar for the evening. There are lockers for changing but you must bring your own lock. The event organizers are not responsible for missing or stolen property: please do not leave valuables in your car. Entry fees paid for this event are non-refundable and non-transferable. Please click on the link below to get your ticket for this event.

NEDS Halloween Spooktacular 19 October 2018

This will be a costume party with prizes for different categories. So, dress to impress in your strangest, funniest, or kinkiest outfit. Or just come as you are.

You never know what may win a prize.

There are lockers for changing, bring your own lock. NEDS is not responsible for missing or stolen property, please do not leave valuables in your car.

As always this is an alcohol-free event, but the bar will be open to serve soft drinks. Please remember to tip the bartender.

Entry fees paid for NEDS events are non-refundable and non- transferable.
Ticket sales are open to all and sales will close the Tuesday before the event at midnight.

NEDS Presents: Pressure points and micro torture with AdelineKindred and RiverMei – 12 October 2018

Would you like to cause intense pain with a single finger? Interested in watching someone squirm with uncomfortable anticipation? Looking for the next thing to make them twitch with just the stroke of a knuckle?

Come learn some of the most unexpectedly sinister ways to poke, prod, and torture various parts of the body using your fingers, knuckles, nails and a variety of small toys. Just when they thought it was safe because you put the whip down…


River and Adeline are a polyamorous, pansexual, switchy duo with a passion for education, preparation, and all sorts of deviant delights ranging from fire to medical play to impact and more. Adeline is a gender fluid Eagle scout and self-proclaimed princess of dad jokes who has been teaching kink since college. River is a medical person turned techie who adores constantly iterating on classes to continuously find more effective ways to communicate and who excels at surviving Adeline’s puns. River has been teaching emergency response classes since 2012 and teaching kink classes with Adeline for the last 3 years. Classes with River and Adeline are an opportunity to learn new skills, delve into new ideas, and enjoy yourself while doing so.

NCSF’s Consent for Groups Discussion 14 September 2018

NOTE: There will be time to discuss issues that NCSF is working on and the Programs they offer. This is an opportunity to understand the issues that the BDSM/Kink community are facing. “We will discuss the current state of the law in Massachusetts and nationally, as well as NCSF efforts to change it.”

Title: NCSF’s Consent for Groups Discussion

Presenter: Jim Dunyak

The National Coalition for Sexual Freedom (NCSF) Consent Counts program is designed to assist our communities in promoting a culture of consent through education and providing resources on how to deal with nonconsensual incidents. Join us for this interactive and informative discussion geared for people who…

• host a munch or rope group
• produce cons or other events
• volunteer at cons or other events
• host play parties in your home or elsewhere
• hold a leadership position in a kink organization

What We’ll Cover:

• Liability concerns for groups and events from criminal and civil perspectives
• Trauma, including
• various ways people react (some might surprise you)
• the “do’s and don’ts” of what to say and
• the best ways to be supportive.
• Dealing with consent incidents – from developing a consent policy to handling sanctions when it’s violated.

Who Should Attend:

Everyone, actually. Certainly, anyone who falls into the categories listed above will benefit from the information in this discussion. However, understanding these components is of equal value when evaluating personal risk tolerance as an attendee.

*NCSF does not provide legal advice

NEDS and NEHG Present Wiseguy!! 10 August 2018

Your Hypotic Self

Getting started as a hypnotist can be daunting. There are so many things to learn: inductions, deepeners, suggestion techniques, safety tips, negotiation skills, etc. Where do you start? In this class, Wiseguy helps to demystify the process of developing your hypnotic skills and style. Learn the things you need to know right away so you can build your confidence and have fun while you continue to add skills and techniques to your hypnotic tool kit.


The unofficial dean of erotic hypnosis education, Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy) brings his brand of humor and fun into classes that teach anyone how to use erotic hypnosis in a way that is safe, ethical, responsible, and hot. He is also the author of the books Mind Play: A Guide to Erotic Hypnosis and The Mind Play Study Guide, the first hypnosis books written expressly for the kink community. In mundane life Wiseguy is a professional hypnotist, a teacher of professional hypnotists, and an avid woodworker.