NEDS Presents: Better Blow Jobs – Friday, December 8, 2017


No two blowjobs are alike, whether your guy is looking for low and slow or fast and furious, this session will give you the tools you need to deliver a Class A blow job every time. Some of the things we will talk about:

-Anatomy (his and yours)
-Negotiation (what’s the end goal? how does he like it? What are you comfortable with? Active or passive participation)
-Blowjobs as a BDSM tool
-Technique (lips, teeth, tongue, breath, hands, balls, deep/shallow, sloppy/dry and more)
-The Big Finish (foreplay or the main event? spit or swallow?)
-Aftercare

There will be a live female demo bottom (the fabulous sepiessa with a strap-on) for demonstration purposes. There will also be plenty of time for discussion.

Whether you are hesitant about your cocksucking skills or a pro looking for some new tricks and tips, please join us for an educational and thought provoking class that is sure to bring delight to both you and your partner.

This is NOT a Hands-On exercise! tenacioustoy DOES NOT need a demo bottom nor will she give “private lessons” or tutor in any way. Please do NOT solicit tenacioustoy in ANY WAY prior to, or after the event.
tenacioustoy has been an active kinkster for more than 30 years and loves to share her knowledge about play and navigating relationships in the kink and the vanilla worlds. As a submissive, providing knowledge-as-a-service is a huge kink that everyone can benefit from. tenacioustoy facilitates discussion based classes and has that certain knack for creating a comfortable atmosphere where people can open up, share and have fun.

NEDS Holiday Party: Friday December 15, 2017

Show Santa just how naughty you can be, join NEDS for our annual holiday party.

The cost for members has been dropped to $20!!!

Register HERE!!

Guaranteed not to cause frost bite on your nose, toes and yes even those. You may even be able to open your package early

Registration for members starts NOW. Non-Members can register starting Nov 20. Last day for registration is December 11, 2017

There are lockers for changing, bring your own lock.

NEDS is not responsible for missing or stolen property, please do not leave valuables in your car. As always this is an alcohol-free event, but the bar will be open to serve soft drinks. Please remember to tip the bartender.

Entry fees paid for NEDS events are non-refundable and non- transferable.

 

NEDS Presents: Flogger Making 101 November 10, 2017

Watch Sassamon make a flogger from scratch. You will observe the steps taken to deliver a high quality leather flogger. The flogger will be for sale at the end of the workshop- proceeds to benefit NEDS. Sassamon will also talk about other impact toys that you can make at home out of some ordinary inexpensive materials. You will learn why they call that big box store “Dom Depot”. The workshop will cover a wide variety of topics from how to select your impact toys, which toys do what, how NOT to use impact toys, etc. Sassamon will also discuss scening with impact toys and how to make it a ‘connected’ scene and not simply a beating.

BIO: Sassamon is a Metrowest resident and self identified townie. He entered the kink scene only six years ago and quickly developed a liking for impact play. He was disappointed with the quality of the floggers available at the local sex shops. He did some research online and taught himself how to make a quality flogger. Shortly after the club debut of the first flogger he made, people started asking for him to make floggers for them. And soon Sassamon Leather was born. Mainly the focus is on using good materials and presenting a solid, quality impact toy. Sassamon is a proud member and supporter of NEDS. He has donated impact toys for each of the NEDS Auctions. He has offered himself as an impact top for each of the auctions and raised nearly $1000 for NEDS through his efforts. Sassamon has also donated floggers to help raise money for the Portsmouth Pride parade and recently sent a flogger to Nashville to help raise money to reopen their kink community center — CPI/The Mark

NEDS Presents: Massage for Lovers and Really Close Friends – Friday, October 13, 2017

There’s a world of hurt AND healing in your hands, fingers and elbows…chances are you already lean on, poke & drum on your partner(s), so why not learn to finesse your massage skills?

sepiessa will discuss and demonstrate various massage techniques and how they affect the physical body as well as stimulate and soothe the nervous system. Stimulation is good and it’s not just the receiver who benefits! Learning to deliver a wide range of sensation from soft and sensuous to hurts-so-good is the focus of this class. Expect to hear erotic moans & groans, giggling and sighs! Learn the untold secrets of a kinky Licensed Massage Therapist!

 

sepiessa will supply hypo-allergenic oil (fractionated coconut oil)

 

Comfortable casual clothing is recommended and may come in contact with washable massage oil, but some fabrics may be stainable. Dress accordingly.

Nudity is likely but not required.

Consent and courtesy will be required.

By attending you consent to be in a room with others in various stages of undress, including full nudity.

Happy Endings are NOT a feature of this class. Some techniques will be shown which are sensual in nature but we will not be demonstrating or practicing to completion.

This is a hands-on class

 

~Be Prepared~

You are welcome to bring your massage table if you’ve got one (be sure it is rated to hold 2 people)

We may have extra massage tables available. If you do not have a table you can bring a yoga mat.

You will each need to bring a towel or two

Please be freshly showered prior to arriving.

Please no cologne or perfume, no smoking before or during

 

sepiessa is a skilled bodyworker with over 10 years of training and experience in Swedish and Deep Tissue massage as well as Thai Massage. She leads Naked Yoga at various local cons and loves to share her knowledge with her kinky peers. She has a flourishing private massage and yoga practice in Massachusetts.

NEDS Spooktacular Halloween Party – Friday October 20, 2017

This will be a costume party with prizes for different categories. So, dress to impress in your strangest, funniest, or kinkiest outfit. Or just come as you are. You never know what may win a prize. There are lockers for changing, bring your own lock. NEDS is not responsible for missing or stolen property, please do not leave valuables in your car. As always this is an alcohol-free event, but the bar will be open to serve soft drinks. Please remember to tip the bartender.
Entry fees paid for NEDS events are non-refundable and non- transferable.

Tickets are now on sale for members and will be on sale September 11 for non-members. Last day to register is October 16th nothing past that date as the club needs a head count.

https://ssl.ne-ds.org/events/1355728532

NEDS and NEHG Present: “We Have Ways of Making You Talk” By Wiseguy

There is nothing quite like a well-run interrogation scene. As a top, interrogations will challenge your creativity and ingenuity; as a bottom, they give you a chance to safely place yourself into an extreme situation. In this class we will go over the essential elements of an interrogation scene, including how to negotiate it and logistical considerations. Then Wiseguy delves into tactics for interrogators and how hypnosis can be used to turn up the intensity and effectiveness of information-extracting techniques. The class concludes with a demonstration scene plotted with the assistance and suggestions of the audience.

The unofficial dean of erotic hypnosis education, Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy) brings his brand of humor and fun into classes that teach anyone how to use erotic hypnosis in a way that is safe, ethical, responsible, and hot. He is also author of the books Mind Play: A Guide to Erotic Hypnosis and The Mind Play Study Guide, the first hypnosis books written expressly for the kink community. In mundane life Wiseguy is a professional hypnotist, a teacher of professional hypnotists, and an avid woodworker.

For this presentation NEDS If offering member entrance fee to Card Presenting NELA Associates.

NEDS Presents: Hot Summer Nights Play Party: July 21, 2017

It’s time to don your bikini (or less) and show off that bod. Join NEDS for their Hot Summer Nights Play Party. Registration is now open for members until July 3, and open to all on the 4th of July! You can register HERE

The evening will get cracking with LadyNim presenting a whip demo.

Then the tropical breeze will take you through the club for some kinky fun.

If you have never been to a NEDS event before, please check out our FetLife group especially our party rules.

We are looking for a few beach babes and dudes to help out with DM duties. Contact events@ne-ds.org if you are interested in helping us.

This will be an alcohol- and drug-free event, in keeping with our party rules.

Once you register, you will get a basic confirmation email. The week of the party, we will e-mail you specifics on location etc.

A little about LadyNim.
My name, my passion for whips and I’ve been in lifestyle about 20 years. In those years, I have been mentored and have mentored others.
I love education of all skills and concepts. “Knowledge is power”.
I have a collared slave Kevin who is my happiness.

Don’t miss out on this hotter than hot play evening!

 

NEDS Presents: Service in M/s Relationships 14 July 2017

What is a service based relationship? Explore the depths of a pure service based relationship, types of service and how each side of a relationship sees and desires to give and receive service. Stephan and sweetwisterias will explore and explain the depths of a 24/7 M/s based relationship with the core ideals being on service and submission. They will discuss some of the common struggles and rewards with the deep connections that are formed in these relationships.

Stephan has been in the scene for almost 20 years and has maintained M/s relationships since entering. He finds the most contentment in day to day life when someone is in service to him. He likes the commitment it takes to be in relationships of this intensity and seeks to share his knowledge and experience with anyone who wants to explore the deeper side of M/s.

sweetwisterias has been in the scene for eight years. She entered knowing that slavery spoke to her core and has sought out structured M/s relationships for this reason. She finds significant value in being of service and in serving others, and is exploring how teaching on lifestyle subjects may be another way of meeting this personal need.

Just a reminder: Before class starts we will be having the special election for the open board position.

NEDS Presents The Business of Kink – 9 June 2017

Whenever there is and exchange of goods, or services for money, service, or goods, that creates a business transaction. Even at the lowest level of selling homemade whips or paddles from you house or the larger established store you’re a business.

The vast majority companies are small businesses, often started by “Mom & Pop” or individuals. During the last US census in 2010 there were 27.9 million small businesses of those registered and there are many who operate undeclared “under the radar” many of which fail in the first 1-5 years.

The Kink community and those who sell goods and services have grown exponentially over the last 10-15 years, moving more from a sub culture to more mainstreams. This has created both great opportunities and pitfalls for those within the community.

The class will provide some tools and techniques for those doing business within the kink community.
Included are topics on:

• The Legal Game: Protecting your ASSets – liability protection and more
• The Money Game: It’s not what you make it’s what you keep – Key financial thoughts
• The Marketing Game: Do’s & Don’ts in the digital age
• The Capital Game: Getting money for your business

Manatyrservice has been in scene on and off, both personally and professionally for over 30 years. He’s worked with Pro-Domme, kink product developers and distributors, and adult content Internet providers.

As a general business managers Ken has over 30 years experience in business management and implementation of best practices, operations, and management planning.in almost every department in every industry. Ken has a unique perspective in that he has created 3 companies from start-up to great financial success and that these companies provided business management consulting and publishing to Fortune 500 executives.

NEDS Presents: All About Head – April 14, 2017

Getting Your Kicks From The Neck Up

Friday,  April 14, 2017 · 7:30 PM – 9:30 PM

 

In the lifestyle so much of our play has to do with impacting the body from the thighs to the breast, sometimes the feet of course…but what about the neck and the head. This class will focus on the sensations from pleasant to painful and a range of others in between while focusing on just the neck & head as the canvas. Lets see how much fun can be derived by “playing with the head”, from sensual touch to safe impact. The class will incorporate the typical toys from a play bag as well as items you may not ever think to place there.

About the presenter:
MzBugz has been a very active member of the BDSM community for nearly 3 years. She has gained a wealth of knowledge through personal life experiences, lifestyle education and practice…lots of practice. A female identified pansexual polyamorous Top heavy hedonistic switch. MzBugz carries with her a reputation for having an incredible shoe collection that she enjoys show off in her kink travels spanning most of New England area playing, learning and teaching