NEDS and NEHG Present: “We Have Ways of Making You Talk” By Wiseguy

There is nothing quite like a well-run interrogation scene. As a top, interrogations will challenge your creativity and ingenuity; as a bottom, they give you a chance to safely place yourself into an extreme situation. In this class we will go over the essential elements of an interrogation scene, including how to negotiate it and logistical considerations. Then Wiseguy delves into tactics for interrogators and how hypnosis can be used to turn up the intensity and effectiveness of information-extracting techniques. The class concludes with a demonstration scene plotted with the assistance and suggestions of the audience.

The unofficial dean of erotic hypnosis education, Mark Wiseman (Wiseguy) brings his brand of humor and fun into classes that teach anyone how to use erotic hypnosis in a way that is safe, ethical, responsible, and hot. He is also author of the books Mind Play: A Guide to Erotic Hypnosis and The Mind Play Study Guide, the first hypnosis books written expressly for the kink community. In mundane life Wiseguy is a professional hypnotist, a teacher of professional hypnotists, and an avid woodworker.

For this presentation NEDS If offering member entrance fee to Card Presenting NELA Associates.

NEDS Presents: Hot Summer Nights Play Party: July 21, 2017

It’s time to don your bikini (or less) and show off that bod. Join NEDS for their Hot Summer Nights Play Party. Registration is now open for members until July 3, and open to all on the 4th of July! You can register HERE

The evening will get cracking with LadyNim presenting a whip demo.

Then the tropical breeze will take you through the club for some kinky fun.

If you have never been to a NEDS event before, please check out our FetLife group especially our party rules.

We are looking for a few beach babes and dudes to help out with DM duties. Contact events@ne-ds.org if you are interested in helping us.

This will be an alcohol- and drug-free event, in keeping with our party rules.

Once you register, you will get a basic confirmation email. The week of the party, we will e-mail you specifics on location etc.

A little about LadyNim.
My name, my passion for whips and I’ve been in lifestyle about 20 years. In those years, I have been mentored and have mentored others.
I love education of all skills and concepts. “Knowledge is power”.
I have a collared slave Kevin who is my happiness.

Don’t miss out on this hotter than hot play evening!

 

NEDS Presents: Service in M/s Relationships 14 July 2017

What is a service based relationship? Explore the depths of a pure service based relationship, types of service and how each side of a relationship sees and desires to give and receive service. Stephan and sweetwisterias will explore and explain the depths of a 24/7 M/s based relationship with the core ideals being on service and submission. They will discuss some of the common struggles and rewards with the deep connections that are formed in these relationships.

Stephan has been in the scene for almost 20 years and has maintained M/s relationships since entering. He finds the most contentment in day to day life when someone is in service to him. He likes the commitment it takes to be in relationships of this intensity and seeks to share his knowledge and experience with anyone who wants to explore the deeper side of M/s.

sweetwisterias has been in the scene for eight years. She entered knowing that slavery spoke to her core and has sought out structured M/s relationships for this reason. She finds significant value in being of service and in serving others, and is exploring how teaching on lifestyle subjects may be another way of meeting this personal need.

Just a reminder: Before class starts we will be having the special election for the open board position.

NEDS Presents The Business of Kink – 9 June 2017

Whenever there is and exchange of goods, or services for money, service, or goods, that creates a business transaction. Even at the lowest level of selling homemade whips or paddles from you house or the larger established store you’re a business.

The vast majority companies are small businesses, often started by “Mom & Pop” or individuals. During the last US census in 2010 there were 27.9 million small businesses of those registered and there are many who operate undeclared “under the radar” many of which fail in the first 1-5 years.

The Kink community and those who sell goods and services have grown exponentially over the last 10-15 years, moving more from a sub culture to more mainstreams. This has created both great opportunities and pitfalls for those within the community.

The class will provide some tools and techniques for those doing business within the kink community.
Included are topics on:

• The Legal Game: Protecting your ASSets – liability protection and more
• The Money Game: It’s not what you make it’s what you keep – Key financial thoughts
• The Marketing Game: Do’s & Don’ts in the digital age
• The Capital Game: Getting money for your business

Manatyrservice has been in scene on and off, both personally and professionally for over 30 years. He’s worked with Pro-Domme, kink product developers and distributors, and adult content Internet providers.

As a general business managers Ken has over 30 years experience in business management and implementation of best practices, operations, and management planning.in almost every department in every industry. Ken has a unique perspective in that he has created 3 companies from start-up to great financial success and that these companies provided business management consulting and publishing to Fortune 500 executives.

NEDS Annual Picnic 4 June 2017

It’s that time of year again!! Break out your sunglasses, bathing suits and chairs for the NEDS annual picnic!! Always a great time and a great way to catch up with fellow members and friends.

We will be providing hamburgers, hotdogs, light snacks and non-alcoholic beverages. Please feel free to bring a side dish to share.

You will be able to find us in the Split Rock section of the park. This area will be designated for us but we cannot control people from passing through.

The park hours are 8 am to 8 pm. We suggest you arrive early because the park will not allow entry once it reaches it’s maximum capacity.

Hopkinton State Park charges an entrance fee of $8.00 for Massachusetts plates and $10.00 for out of state plates.

18+ only.  Please no children.  This event is free for active NEDS members and $20 for non-members.

NEDS Presents: BDSM and the Law – 12 May 2017

 

An open question forum with a Massachusetts Attorney on the intersects of BDSM and the law (this is purposely open ended as the intersects can range from Criminal to divorce and everything in between). Typical Issues of discussion are: What is consent under the law?, how does my being kinky affect me in court? What do I tell me Doctor about my bruises?; What should I tell the police if they want to talk to me about bruises, kink, or anything?; whatever you bring

Attorney Adam Phipps has practiced in Massachusetts since 2011. Prior to becoming an Attorney Adam worked as a Registered Nurse for more than twenty years (emergency department, ICU, and management). He handles a general civil practice: (Civil rights, Discrimination, mental health litigation, police misconduct, Family law (Divorce, custody, restraining orders), Landlord-Tenant, medical-legal consulting as an expert Registered Nurse. He identifies as non-binary and is comfortable with any pronouns. He considers himself a progressive intellectualist with a love of politics, history and old movies.

NEDS Service and Silent Auction – April 22, 2017

April 22nd is coming up fast and registration is now open to all! Members and non-members can sign up until April 17th.

Have you ever had a fantasy of being won by the highest bidder? Are you a submissive who has wanted to belong to someone for an evening after being auctioned off the block? Are you a Top that has an amazing skill that you love to exhibit on a bottom? Want to practice this in an open and safe environment with like minded individuals? Now is your chance! NEDS is hosting a Service and Silent Auction as a fundraiser to raise money for the charities chosen AND gives you a chance to get your kink on while giving back to the community. That’s a win win for everyone!

If you’re interested in going up for auction it doesn’t matter how you identify, it’s open to anyone who wishes to go up! If bidding for someones time for a scene doesn’t interest you, how about bidding on a handmade crafted kinky item, sexy toy or a piece of art? This year we have over $1600 worth of goodies.

Want to go up for auction? Click Here!  (PLEASE NOTE – if you want to go up for auction you must be registered to the event to get in)

100% of the proceeds will be split evenly to The Network / La Red, The Center for Sexual Pleasure and Health, and our newest local organization to be added this year is Liberty House in Manchester NH!

To learn more about these organizations and how they help, check out their links:

The Network / La Red
The Center of Sexual Pleasure and Health
Liberty House

$25 for Members, $35 for Non Members

NEDS Presents: Kink 101 and Annual Member Meeting – March 10, 2017

March will be the annual members meeting. We will be reviewing the our financials and several Board members are up for reelection.
We need as many members as possible to attend. Remember this is YOUR organization. Have your voice heard.

After the meeting Switcher will be presenting Kink 101:

KINK has been around for years, but with the advent of the Internet it has become much easier to find out about it, find events and dive into the whole ‘scene’. This access has been received with mixed results – some have been overwhelmed, some have been merely whelmed with all the terms and activities they have read about, heard about or experienced. Let’s take a few minutes and look at some of the realities of this and see how we might have fun and not get in too much trouble while doing it.

Bio:Switcher has been around since before the invention of dirt. Rumor has it that he is the culprit that actually invented it, but I digress. He has hosted a munch in the Greater Boston area for several years, as well as vending at the New England Fetish Fair Fleamarket, Kinky Con and other events. He is a member of NEDS and The Society and a regular attendee at NEDS events